How to Choose Your Wedding Style: Five Tips for Creating the Perfect Atmosphere
One of the first creative decisions in wedding planning is defining your style. It sets the tone for the entire event, influencing everything from florals and decor to lighting, attire, and how the day feels. With so much inspiration available, it can be easy to get overwhelmed or pulled in multiple directions.
The most cohesive celebrations often begin with clarity. Below are a few ideas I encourage couples to consider when shaping their wedding style.
Start with Your Own Story
Your wedding should feel like a reflection of you and your partner. That does not mean incorporating every personal detail, but rather finding a design language that feels natural and aligned with your shared aesthetic. Think about the spaces you love, the colors you return to, or the parts of your story that feel grounding. A favorite flower, a tone from your home, or a subtle reference to heritage can guide the overall design in a way that feels honest and intentional.
Consider How You Want the Day to Feel
Mood is just as important as style. Do you want your guests to feel relaxed and connected, or energized and celebratory? The emotional tone of the event should inform your decisions about materials, color palette, layout, and lighting. Soft textures and warm candlelight invite intimacy. Bold color and dramatic form suggest movement and energy. Begin with the feeling, and the visual decisions will follow more naturally.
Let the Venue Inform the Vision
Most venues come with their own atmosphere. Rather than working against that, use it as a starting point. The architecture, the light, and the surrounding landscape can all offer clues about what will feel harmonious in the space. A historic estate, a private home, or a museum will each call for a different tone. The goal is not to match the venue exactly, but to design in a way that feels grounded in the setting.
Use Visual Tools with Intention
Platforms like Pinterest can be incredibly helpful when used thoughtfully. Pin freely at first, then return with a critical eye. Look for patterns across images—repeated tones, materials, or shapes—and remove anything that does not reflect your actual style. This curated collection can help your planner and design team understand your vision without chasing trends or getting lost in detail.
Work Collaboratively with Your Florist
Florals are often one of the most expressive parts of wedding design. A good florist will help you translate your style into a visual plan that works with your venue, your season, and your priorities. Share your ideas early, then be open to adjustments that enhance the overall design. Whether it is through color, shape, or placement, floral design plays a key role in defining the atmosphere of the day.
Final Thought
Your wedding style is not about following trends. It is about creating an environment that feels intentional, well balanced, and connected to your story. At Branches and Blooms Design, I work closely with each client to develop a floral plan that supports that vision so the day feels cohesive, personal, and exactly as it should.
Photo by M2 Photography